How a Two-Week Service Dog Boot Camp Gave Me Strength, Independence, and a Lifelong Partner
By Marie Fishman | Guest Contributor | High Springs, Florida
Two weeks ago, I began a journey that would forever change my life. I graduated from an intensive Service Dog “Boot Camp” alongside 13 other dedicated teams. Now, my new partner Slate—a remarkable three-year-old service dog—and I are officially bonded for life.
This transformative experience was made possible by New Horizons Service Dogs, a nonprofit organization in Orange City, Florida, known for its rigorous, compassionate training methods. Their program is not just about training dogs; it’s about preparing people with disabilities to live fuller, more independent lives.
What is Service Dog Boot Camp?
Service Dog Boot Camp is exactly what it sounds like—an intense, challenging, and transformative experience designed to prepare individuals to become effective service dog handlers. It’s not just about teaching commands; it’s about learning an entirely new way of thinking, communicating, and leading. As a human participant, I quickly realized that the rigorous mental and physical demands of the program were necessary to meet the high standards already achieved by my service dog, Slate. He had spent years mastering over 80 commands, and it was now my turn to catch up.
But this training went far beyond memorization. I had to immerse myself in the world of canine psychology and behavior—understanding how dogs learn, respond, and thrive. I learned to adjust my voice, body language, pace, and emotional energy to communicate clearly and effectively with Slate. I discovered that dogs live entirely in the moment, and that timely, consistent feedback was key to building trust. Every gesture, every tone, and every action had meaning. This boot camp was a deep dive into what it truly means to be a team. Through hard work, vulnerability, and determination, I began to transform—not just into a handler, but into Slate’s lifelong partner and leader.
Building Trust, One Command at a Time
One of the most powerful lessons I learned during service dog boot camp was that Slate, my canine partner, lives entirely in the moment. He doesn’t dwell on the past or worry about the future—he simply exists in the now. That realization reshaped the way I approached communication and training. I had to understand that any praise or correction had to be delivered at the exact right moment to be meaningful and fair. Delayed responses weren’t just ineffective—they risked confusing or even damaging the bond we were building. Training wasn’t just about teaching Slate; it was also about transforming myself. I was encouraged to evaluate my own mindset and habits. Was I stressed? Was I managing my time well? Was I projecting confidence and calm, or anxiety and distraction? Every part of me affected how Slate responded. This process demanded a deep level of self-awareness, and it taught me that effective leadership starts within. Before I could guide Slate, I needed to lead myself—with patience, clarity, and intention. Through this journey, we built trust step by step, one command at a time, growing stronger together as a true service dog team.
Our Emotional Connection
Meeting Slate for the first time was nothing short of overwhelming. As soon as our eyes met, I felt something shift deep within me. He wasn’t just a dog—he was a partner, a steady presence, and a lifeline I didn’t even realize I needed so badly. His eyes were calm, focused, and filled with an intelligence that spoke volumes without a single word. That first moment of connection was powerful, but it was only the beginning of the bond we would forge together.
Throughout our training, there were times when I felt physically exhausted and emotionally raw. There were moments when I wanted to quit, when the challenges seemed too heavy to carry. But Slate was always there. He had this innate ability to sense when I was on the verge of breaking, and without command or hesitation, he would lay across my body, grounding me with his warmth and gentle weight. In those moments, it was as if he was breathing life back into me—reminding me that I wasn’t alone, that we were in this together. Our emotional connection wasn’t trained—it was earned, felt, and deeply real. Slate isn’t just my service dog; he’s my healing companion.
Field Trips and Real-World Training
The second week of boot camp marked a major shift in our training—we stepped out of the classroom and into the real world. Slate and I, along with the other service dog teams, visited public spaces like grocery stores, restaurants, a train station, and various busy environments. These outings were not just about exposure—they were opportunities to apply everything we had learned in unpredictable, everyday settings. We practiced commands repeatedly, learning how to navigate crowds, respond to distractions, and maintain control no matter the surroundings. Whether it was maneuvering through narrow aisles at the store or keeping calm on a bustling train platform, Slate and I were learning how to function as one seamless unit. Every challenge was a new lesson in trust, communication, and teamwork.
By graduation night, the transformation was remarkable. As we gathered for a celebratory dinner, all 14 service dogs silently disappeared under the long table, lying still and composed—just as they were trained. Their calm presence, despite the noise and excitement above them, was a powerful symbol of how far we’d all come. That night was more than a celebration—it was a moment of pride, love, and hope for a future made brighter by our incredible canine companions.
A Dog of Many Talents
Slate is more than just a service dog—he’s my partner, protector, and constant support. He’s been trained in over 80 specialized commands that allow me to navigate life with greater freedom and confidence. His skills range from the practical to the profound. He can retrieve bottles from the refrigerator, open and close doors, turn light switches on and off, and even assist me if I lose balance or fall. These daily tasks may seem simple, but for someone like me, they are game changers.
Beyond the basics, Slate is also highly trained in advanced PTSD-related tasks that bring me emotional safety in overwhelming situations. In crowded environments, he can block people from getting too close, giving me the space I need to feel secure. He also knows how to position himself behind me in public settings—what we call “watch my six”—so I never feel alone or vulnerable.
Slate’s service-specific abilities are equally impressive. He can retrieve dropped items and gently place them in my hand. If I’m in distress and unable to call for help, he knows to bark and alert others. He confidently climbs onto examination tables or grooming platforms without hesitation, and no matter how loud or chaotic the surroundings, he remains calm, focused, and ready to assist.
One of the most incredible things about Slate is his ability to keep learning. His training doesn’t stop with what he knows now. I can continue to teach him new objects, names, and even assign tasks like delivering items to specific people. This adaptability means Slate evolves with me—his support grows as my needs change.
He’s not just a dog with skills—he’s a lifeline with four paws and a heart full of loyalty.
More Than a Service Dog—A Teammate for Life
Slate’s skills and obedience are impressive, but it’s his emotional intelligence and our bond that truly set him apart. Whether I’m anxious in public or struggling with daily tasks, he’s there—steady, calm, and loving.
The program at New Horizons Service Dogs Inc. changed my life. I could never have afforded this training or dog on my own. Thanks to their incredible team and the volunteers who help raise and train these dogs, I have a second chance at independence.
I’m grateful beyond words. Slate is not just a service dog—he’s a life partner, a hero in fur.
About the Author:
Marie Fishman is a proud graduate of New Horizons Service Dogs Boot Camp and a resident of High Springs, Florida. Her story is one of resilience, gratitude, and the transformative power of the human-animal bond.
